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Any "ex-wife websites" out there?

happy mom's picture

Just wondering has anyone of you found any sites like steptalk but this one is ex-wives and dealing w/new wife/husband? I'm interested in what they talk about and their problems with us stepparents etc. Maybe get an idea on how they think and what they think of their own situations.


still_looking's picture

It is dealing MORE with the Blended Family as a whole and NOT Just STEP MOM OR DAD....So therfore all are welcome. This site Step Talk as the forun says is a place where STEP parents come to vent, cry, moan, gain support. It's always funny to me WHEN BIO MOMS AND DADS, criticize US (and by the way I am also a bio mom AND STEP mom) for venting. That statement is a little ironic when you are on OUR (step parents) site telling us that we vent too much. Maybe you are on the wrong site. I wouldn't go to a FOOTBALL Forum and tell the members that they TALK about FOOTBALL too much, why don't they ever talk about BASEBALL.Just my personal thought. I know you ddi NOT say that, but others have.
But anyways the site is....

"Be there for the joy. Be there for the tears. Be there for each other."
(Step-Mom the Movie 1998)

Rae's picture

I went out the the site and read many of the topics and found them to be very, very illuminating! I think it's sometimes good to see the other side. And on that site you can see the trauma, heartbreak and struggle BM's are going through. A BM is putting me through absolute he!! right now, but after going to that site, I can see a little bit of where she is at emotionally.

wife number 2's picture

I went to that site, too. Yikes. I read a lot of angry posts over there. The common message about SM's I was reading was, "Don't even talk to her." Jeeeze, I wish my husband's ex would heed that advice.

stamina's picture

So if the stepmoms are angry and the biomoms are angry, what must the kids pick up from all of that? No bed of roses for them either, I would think. Not that I am saying it is any day at the park for stepmoms either, but I chose this (or thought I did) but I would not choose it again for love nor money!

sweetSM's picture

In the Pregnancy and Parenting section, there's a board called Bio Moms. There is also a board called Biomom/Stepmom debate.

Those ladies are........I have no words for them.

Just go see for yourself Wink

Gia's picture

To sneak over there and find out what their problems are... lol