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Another oldie but goodie...the birthday party
A post about sharing holidays reminded me of the great birthday party for GW (SS18).
Somewhere around the time that DH and Beaver finalized their divorce, GWR was about 6 at that the time and DH hadn't really shined up his spine yet in regards to Beaver and the two kids.
Beaver called one night while he watching TV and wanted to "talk". This was before DH put his foot down and said no more calls unless someone is bleeding and needs the ER.
Chit chat...what Beaver has been doing, etc. Dh finally asks, what does she want?
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In 6 months...B*'s golden uterus money..I mean cs will drop by 60%
Today DH received notice that because he owes $357 in arrears, the state will intercept his state tax return next year to offset it. Good luck with that...we always owe and by January he will no longer owe arrears. He is paying $100 per month for the arrears accrued from when GWR nope out of house to Beaver's house Feb, 2019. Now back when this all went down...and the order was filed December, 2019 we could have easily paid the arrears in one lump sum..but yea...no. Beaver wanted this extra golden uterus money then she would get it in small increments.
UPDATE 4 - GWR, SD and B*r...what will B*r do.....my guess is NADA and do I tell DH
DH heard from SD over the weekend. So far everything was ok there. SD did tell DH that Beaver said the other boy, GWR's friend who I will call Eddie Haskel here....is not allowed over to there house anymore, not even when SD is not there.
I looked at DH and asked..How long you think that will last. Dh...about a month and then Beaver will relent since GWR will be unhappy and Beaver can't have that. That and GWR will pull the...I'm suicidal unless I get what I want card.
Also, no mention of any punishment for GWR.....anyone shocked? yea were weren't either.
UPDATE 3 - GWR, SD and B*r...what will B*r do.....my guess is NADA and do I tell DH
Morning...
Dh didn't even get a chance to call the school when the principal called him this morning at 8:15 a.m. DH and the principal are on first name basis since they have been dealing with the GWR for a few years now. The assistant Principal is brand new this year and was not aware of GWR's past shenannigans.
UPDATE 2 - GWR, SD and B*r...what will B*r do.....my guess is NADA and do I tell DH
Update number 2..
The school got the annonymous report this morning and called both SD and GWR down to the office. They seperated them and began to ask questions.
this is the account according to SD...
She was waiting in outer office to enter the Asst. Principal's office and over heard the resource office talking to GWR.
The resource officer asked GWR if he knew why he was there. Of course GWR said he didn't. The RO informed him was suspected of being involved in inappropriate text messages to another student.
UPDATE - GWR, SD and B*r...what will B*r do.....my guess is NADA and do I tell DH
In the end I did tell DH what I had found. Turns out SD had told him most of the story, she left out the sexual part. I informed of that part. DH is disgusted, annoyed and very disappointed that this is his own son. DH tried to raise SS to be better about.
I told him because I figured he needed to know
Why didn't I want to..
DH's go to used to be to send a message to Beaver. However, that is like pissing up a tree. The tree doesn't get watered and DH just gets piss all over him.
GWR, SD and B*r...what will B*r do.....my guess is NADA and do I tell DH
SD and GWR (aka SS) go to the same high school now. SD is Freshman and GWR should be a senior but failing classes and dropping out of the automotive program make him....a pseudo Sr...who knows.
At any rate..GWR is at the high school with SD. Apparently, today GWR thought it would be Hilarious to give out SD's phone number to his friends and tell everyone that SD would be happy to give BJ's to everyone. SD's phone blew up with random text and calls from people she doesn't know, etc. One of SD's friends older sisters clued SD in on GWR's shenannigans. SD was MORTIFIED.
Is it a bird, or Unicorn or is it SD..
Why its SD in an adult size unicorn onsies. SD was about 12 when this happened. The sleep over story reminded me of this one.
SD has a terrible habit of coming to our house in her PJ's and flip flops. If DH has to pick up SD from the Beaver den he knows SD will be wearing PJ's. Smh. This is so common that if we need to go anywhere after pickup, we bring SD proper clothes and shoes.
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Tale of two kids...
DH has two siblings, a sister and a brother. Sister in law...really nice person, good mom, etc. Been marred for almost 20 years and has two sons, nephew number 3 and 4, ages 14 and 12. Both nephew 3 and 4 are good kids and are doing well. Brother in law..ugh straight up sh*t show. BIL is a drug addict and his drug of choice these days are oxy and meth. Oh joy...his estranged wife is no better and is running the local drug den in their little town in the midwest. BIL has done so many drugs that he has fried his brain. He is now exhibits many neurological tics and is disabled. s
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GWR is almost 19 and still has Beaver asking for
things like insurance information, etc. Like really.....oy. 6 more months....and we can ignore anything from Beaver regarding the GWR. After March if GWR wants any information, etc he better put on his big boy pants and ask DH directly. However, after March he better get his own insurance cause DH and I will be dropping him from insurance as fast as we can. Me..I will be dropping him with this years open enrollment in October..and DH will with his next open enrollment in July.
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