LOL at typical toxic, jealous, drama-mama flare-up summary.

And the Beaver pix!

This reminds me of the time that DH got a new job and switched insurance providers. He told BM that the insurance would be changing and it would take 1 business day to add SSs to the insurance. BM pitched a fit and told DH he was deadbeat dad who didn't care about his children. This was when we were just dating and DH jumped around like an idiot and tried to blame the insurance company. It was one business day.

When I first met DH he was still covering BM under his insurance, which she got him to agree to as part of the divorce settlement three years prior. I don't think he ever told the insurance company that he got divorced, so was likely committing fraud. Anyhow, DH gets a new job and tells BM that he will no longer be covering her (the divorce agreement stipulated that he didn't have to cover her anymore if he got new insurance). BM pitches a fit and tells DH that she will demand he pay $800 more in child support to cover her insurance premium. This BM makes 2.5 times what DH makes but was "self-employed" when they divorced, so didn't want to provide her own insurance. Then after DH left the job, it took several months for his insurance to be cancelled (due to HR errors). BM kept charging it. She would text DH and say "your insurance is still working." DH repeatedly asked her to stop using it. She even tried to charge something to that insurance about a year ago, even though he cancelled that insurance in 2015.

The toxic opposition far more often than not is infuriated by success.  No doubt BM is spouting that the purchase of your new Air Stream is taking food out of the mouths of her babes.

Enjoy your new luxury land yacht.  Including gloating about how much it irks the BM.

The SpermGrandHag used to rant about how the CS she paid (her idiot son is such a POS that he never paid a penny for any of his 4 all out of wedlock spawn by 3 different baby mamas) paid for new cars, nice vacations and two different homes that we purchased.  Let me tell ya, that $110/mo had us living in the lap of luxury.

*yahoo* 

She never said a word about the years my DW spent in college, grad school and getting her CPA.  SS is very proud of his mom.  Occassionally while on visitation he would excitedly share with his sibs and the SpermClan about his mom's honors dual major BS graduation, then MBA graduation with honors and passing the CPA exam.  SpermGrandHag would discount it, try to deflate SS with comments about how it was no big deal and she and her daughter (the only person in the SpermClan who is not a total POS) were taking accounting classes at the local community college and how CS paid for my DW's tuition.

The more success we had, the more toxic and haggy she became.

when he was 22 SS asked me to adopt him.  He was hesitant to tell the Hag.  When he finally told her I was floored by her response. She told him she was glad that he had a good dad to raise him and show him how to be a man.

I was shocked.  Almost enough to actually feel sorry for her. But that lasted only a split second before clarity settled back in.

The Spermidiot was COd to provide insurance for SS. He never did.  So.... CS was increased to cover half of the increased premium for me to cover SS on my insurance.  That pissed off SpermGrandHag and SpermGrandPa to no end since they were the ones paying the CS.  We made sure that there was a card in SS's bag on every visitation.  We pointed out that DickHead was in violation of the CO by not providing insurance on several occassions when the Hag would get lippy.  She sure enjoyed putting me down as hte responsible party any time she had to take SS to the Doc or ER while he was on visitaiton.  We battled over that few times over the years.

We are joining my parents at the end of the month for a week or two in their RV for our 26th anniversary.  They love their trips and love company.  We join them as often as we can.  Enjoy new Air Stream!.