My 8 year old stepdaughter tries to mother my 3 year old
Any time i try to discipline my 3 year old for acting up and being disrespectful, my 8 year old SD feels like she has to jump in or storm out or scream. All because of how I discipline my bio 3 year old. If my bio D is doing anything my SD doesn't agree with, she takes it upon herself to scold her and threaten to discipline her herself if I'm not right there. I have asked her numerous times to refrain and be a sister, not a mother towards my bio D and not to undermine me.. She gets offensive and gripes at me that she isn't. I have talked to my Hub, but all he says is he has talked to her about it. End of story. I don't abuse my children, but when they act up they get corrected so they learn respect and that kind of behavior isn't accepted. I don't want my bio D's growing up thinking they can undermine me.