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Update- I'm Out!!!

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Submitted by GreenEyedSM on Wed, 07/14/2010 - 4:47pm

Hello All- Just an update for all of you who have helped me tremendously through the last year. I have not been posted for a couple of months & boy has a lot happened!
First- I decided I had enough of DH's BS & laid out an ultimatum... counseling or I'm leaving. DH said the same old stuff & refused to go to counseling (saying,as always, he does not believe in it & no one will tell him how to live his life).
Second- After much thought & finally getting my head out of my ass.... I left.

Would Anyone Else Be POed?

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Submitted by GreenEyedSM on Sat, 05/15/2010 - 12:15am

So one of my SD's is attending a week long camp in another state this summer. My DH & I were talking about possibly driving her down & staying for a little vacation while she is at camp. Not much to do in this area but I did find some interesting & fun things to keep us busy. The last time we talked about it was about 2 weeks ago. We were trying to decide if we really wanted to spend the money to stay down there, as it is not really a place we would pick for a vacation.

I wish the party was over....

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Submitted by GreenEyedSM on Wed, 03/03/2010 - 2:01pm

So SD10's b-day party is at my & DH's house. In the past all b-day parties have been at BM's house or at a different venue (bouncy place, chuckie cheese, etc.) and I was not welcome. SD10 requested the party to be held at our home & I was so excited at first. Now it is turning into a power thing w/ BM and I am really getting stressed out. BM has told DH she is planning everything. This is a slumber party, but the girls are going to a movie earlier then returning home for pizza & cake. I wrote a previous blog about the cake issue. I have since gotten over it.

Control Freak BM & The B-Day Cake....

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Submitted by GreenEyedSM on Wed, 02/17/2010 - 4:55pm

So I know BM is a complete control freak who cries, pouts & whines whenever something doesn't go her way. Of course she does the whining to DH, who always finds a way to satisfy her so she doesn't make his life a complete hell for weeks. Just two weeks ago BM told DH (in an email) that she was going to try harder w/ me. This came after years of her ignoring me & telling DH I was not welcome at skids events. In the last few months I have gone to a couple of skids events because they ask me to.

Hoping BM will check herself @ the door Sat night... Uggghhh!

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Submitted by GreenEyedSM on Wed, 01/27/2010 - 7:37am

I need some support & encouragement. I am going to my first event w/ DH Sat night that BM will also be attending. Anything I have gone to before for skids, BM has not been there. The event is a musical that SD10 is in & it's over an hour long. DH, I, BD11& BS9 will all be going together. BM & her parents will be attending. BM will be bringing DH's other 2 daughters with her so I just

R U F'N KIDDING ME????

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Submitted by GreenEyedSM on Tue, 12/01/2009 - 10:25pm

So I know I shouldn't have , but I just couldn't help myself. DH and I have our own computers & emails so we really don't see each others stuff. Once in awhile I get an overwhelming urge to take a peek and see what BM is up to cuz I can tell she is acting different. When she does this I have always found that she emails queer stuff to DH such as "Can you believe we made these beautiful children together?" or recalling something from the past (their life together) and pointing it out.

Not crazy yet but... :(

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Submitted by GreenEyedSM on Sun, 11/29/2009 - 8:50pm

Hi All! I am new here. New to blogging that is, I have been lurking for awhile. I have gotten to the point where all the thoughts in my head are so jumbled up I am completely overwhelmed. I need to vent & would also be interested to hear what others dealing with similar issues think of the situation I am in. I am sick of only hearing the same thing from my DH "I can't control her" & "I do it for my kids", both in regards to all the crap BM pulls!