So a few weeks ago BM actually included me in a decision with SS12. I thought maybe we were getting to a point where we could all work together, you know like dtzy and her x and his wife. I was cautiously optimistic because well, I don't trust her.

Her behavior lately while isn't horrible, just makes my spidey senses tingle.

She suddenly wants to be part of the teen fit program doctor appts. She informed DH that her and her DH will also be participating in the teen fit program with SS and became super c*nt when DH told her that neither she nor her DH could be participate in the program with SS because our insurance covers the appts, gym membership and nutritional counseling and they aren't covered under our insurance.

She told DH that she thinks SS needs new shoes, that he shouldn't be running in basketball shoes. 1. what does she think basketball players do in them? 2. He out grew those shoes two months ago and I bought him a nice pair of nike running shoes. DH told her he'd look at SS's shoes and if he needs new ones he'll get them. She says "Oh I can get them" DH said okay. It'll never happen. DH said she has not bought any clothes or shoes in 7 years. Even SS doesn't ask her for anything. He asks me for it. So I'm not sure what that was about.

She uses SS's phone and we have teen safe on it. I noticed that someone (I doubt it was SS) was looking at rentals near BM's dad's house. (Two hours away)

Her crap earlier this week where she decided to bring SS to summer school instead of dropping him off and not telling us.

I think it's great she is starting to do stuff for SS but my fear is she will build him up and then let him down which is what usually happens when she takes an interest in his life.

She is dying to move out near her DAAAADDDYYY yea she's one of those SDs. If she moves rest assured DH will enforce the CO. It basically reads that if one parent moves and taking the child would impact the other parents time, the parent that did not move will get full custody or some such malarkey. She wanted it like that because she swears DH and I are trying to move away and take SS.

I hope I'm just reading too much into this...