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Wear your mask
I feel like a good percentage of people on this board do take COVID seriously and do wear masks based on what I have been reading the last few months. I just want to stress the importance of wearing masks especially the right masks this morning because of what is currently going on in my family.
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O/T - Dowry
I thought you all might be interested in this or at the very least if you need entertainment, this should provide you with some. To make a long story short, I used to work with this man named John and this man named Luke, we all became friends while we were co-workers, this was almost 4 years ago, but we all have different jobs now. Well John is now married and expecting a baby with his wife, we are very good friends and they have been together 10 yearsish. Luke has a girlfriend we will call Vicki, they started dating about 2 months after bf and I, so they have been together now 2 years.
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Cousin's gf continued - COVID related
So when I first wrote about her I purposefully left out something big because I wanted to see what other people's thoughts were without this tidbit. The biggest reason I am angry that cousin and cousin's gf are coming is because a month ago the gf got COVID. She got it because she has been going to bars, thinking COVID is a joke, and oh yeah she lives in FL, so she has been acting as though life is normal and not taking precautions.
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A BM called up a radio show to prove Ex-H was lying
So this is obviously not about me, but bf and I started listening to this podcast when we were on our road trip last month called "Dirty Work Wednesday" and basically people call up this radio show to help them prove someone was lying, cheating, etc. or really just about anything. So yesterday bf and I were on our way to our friends and listened to a few episodes of this show. There was one in particular that I just had to share with you all... See below
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Blog Hog Today - Is your SO healthily scared of you?
Now that may sound REALLY strange, but I was unsure how else to word what I am trying to get at. I saw another poster's comment about saying how they would look like the girl in the Exorcist if their SO had done what the OP's SO had done and it made me think about relationship dynamics. For example, when watching a movie or show and either a man or woman does/says something in regards to an ex or even step life situation that is a definitely boundary crosser or disrespectful to the current SO/relationship, my bf jokes how he would be too scared to do that and see my reaction.
O/T - Dreading seeing my cousin's gf next weekend
Okay so next weekend we are driving 2 hours away to my aunt's home where my dad's side of the family is coming, plus us, my parents and my brother. My bf has met obviously my brother and parents, but he also has met the aunt, uncle, and cousin's home that we will be staying at. Bf has not met the rest of that side yet because since we have been together the times I have seen them has been mostly in sad circumstances or bf could not get the time off to fly there and visit. I was pretty excited for my bf to finally meet them since COVID canceled early plans to do so.
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For those with out of state Christmas, what do you do when it is not your year?
SD is 4, this will be the first Christmas that bf will not see SD for Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, or the day following Christmas. From here on out, we get odd years of Christmas break and BM gets even years. We will be getting SD for Thanksgiving this year just because BM is still actually in the same state and willing to allow bf to have SD this year. For Christmas however, BM will not allow bf to have any time, but technically it is her year so can't be mad about that.
Supposedly getting SD for Thanksgiving
So as of this morning we have confirmed with Bm we will get SD for the evening before thanksgiving until the Sunday evening following Thanksgiving. So I am excited that at least we get to see SD for a few days.
What makes me so angry though is BM sends a message saying those dates are fine as long as we pick up SD in the evening on the 25th because it's BM's older child's birthday aka the one she took away from bf. Like stop being a c**t and mentioning this child just say it has to be in the evening that day.
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SD and the “developmental” concern
So Bm finally uploaded the records from the wellness visit and the immunization records from SD's appointment. When looking at it, we noticed on there it says under reason for visit "developmental concern" so bf messages BM and asks what is that about.
BM says SD does not know her colors, her numbers, or how to write 1 - 10 as she should at 4 years old...
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Coming into the step world early on
A few weeks ago bf and I had a conversation following drama that BM was trying to stir up with messages on the parenting app they use to communicate. Bf turned to me and said “remember how I told you there was no baby mama drama, well clearly that is not true.” I laughed and I was like “well obviously over 2 years later I realize that.” Bf was referencing on our first date I had asked him if there was any baby mama drama because I didn’t want any part of that. Bf had told me that there really was not any.
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