It’s funny, I had read on a men’s forum before finding this site, a woman saying she wrote on the men’s site instead of one involving mostly women because it was so negative. I found this site and I was like oh wow this great and so helpful! Other than a few people who have reached out or commented giving legit advice, I have felt nothing, but a lot of women here trying to belittle me and just tons of negativity. 

Well it has been about over a month since I talked about my bf's legal situation regarding the custody and the divorce. Also took a few week break from this site to get some fresh air. So my bf got a new lawyer, offically signed all the paperwork, met with him, and all that jazz this morning. This lawyer is cheaper than the lawyer who was essentially twiddling her thumbs and making decisions without discussing them with my bf first. Also, this lawyer thinks he has a good chance of getting what he wants in regards to custody.

I am offically done posting on/commenting/looking at this site for a long while after my last post and after a few other posts of late I have seen where a vast majority are being torn down and people are just giving subjective opinions without reading the facts. So I am going to give my facts here about my situation, you don't like them, that is fine, but at the very least it should clear up some things with some of you who think I am selfish and my boyfriend doesn't want his children apparently.

I have received on my blog and forum posts that I have posted thus far! You all are great I will be deleting half of the items I have posted out of worry that somehow BM will somehow magically stumble upon such posts and as my bf's situation is not typical, totally would be a slam dunk for talking about BM if she were to read them.