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Response to yesterday's blog

After I post this blog I am going to be deleting the other two blogs on the topic. There are some particular comments I want to address from the previous two blogs.

For starters:

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So BM is an antivaxer, I know based off peeking at her social media that BM is all "haha, the coronavirus can't touch me," so I can only imagine how not seriously she is taking this and making sure to protect herself and bf's daughter from the virus. Now Virginia is only at 17 confirmed cases of coronavirus, we have pick up of bf's daughter on Sunday... If while she is in our care and the state tells everyone to stay in their homes, etc. what do you do about visitation. Could we keep bf's daughter till the all clear? Do we have to continue with exchanges?

Just a two week update

Been a crazy busy last couple of weeks, but the good news is the papers for my bf’s divorce are FINALLY filed with the court. Two weeks ago we found out my bf had to come sign an affidavit and he had to have a witness sign an affidavit who knew both him and BM prior to them separating, but none of this was told ahead.

Feeling a bit guilty

So for all of you who are familiar with my story and my situation, I am feeling a bit guilty. This is the first full week we have bf's daughter 7 whole days in a row, which has been so nice and great! She started back at day care this week and is enjoying it a lot. Between the natural cough syrup we have been giving her and the cool mist humidifier, she sounds so much better! She has been doing so great with potty training both at home and at school. Also, with my bf and I going over her numbers and colors every day, she is improving on those too!

As much as I hate to admit it, you all were right

that I should not confront BM about her attempting to give my bf a Valentine's Day gift. Even though I REALLY REALLY want to because it is so disrespectful to me and our relationship. One of the biggest reasons why it is very disrespectful is because it is not that BM has been doing this all along for holidays, but rather the week after bf tells BM when she said they both made mistakes that his only mistake was everything having to do with her and when she said they need to move on that bf has moved on a long time ago, NOW BM wants to try and give a Valentine's Day gift to him.

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I am livid

So didn't want to be back on here again for a while, but I'm extremely livid. This afternoon was pick up for my bf's daughter. So BM tries to hand him a gift and said here is a Valentine's Day gift from your daughter .... BM has NEVER tried to give bf a birthday gift, Christmas gift, Father's Day gift, nothing since this my bf filed for divorce two years ago. And from what I heard, sounds like BM never gave bf gifts really except Christmas and birthday.

Papers have been received!!!

Finally, the attorney received BM's signed papers yesterday and sent them over to bf via email last night. The papers were not notarized until January 29th, not January 24th like bf's attorney was originally told which is why they have not been received until now. Still took 2 weeks to be delivered to an office in the same town as BM's attorney, which I think is ridiculous, but whatever. The signed papers are now in the hands of bf's attorney so finally he can do what he needs to do and the processing time can start.

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Losing my mind

I know this is not a divorce forum, but a step parent forum, although this kind of relates. So Friday marks 3 weeks since BM signed the papers. Apparently my bf's lawyer has not yet received in the mail the signed PSA from BM's attorney. The offices of both lawyers is in the same town, so there is no reason that they have not been received yet. I'm losing my mind right now about it because it all seemed to be coming to a close, but did BM's attorney not send them yet? Were they sent to the wrong place? Like what on earth could possibly be happening.

BM's lies about doctors and vaccinations

So if you read my last blog update, I went into some detail regarding BM being difficult in regards to sharing medical information. So after getting all the info from the doctor BM takes bf's daughter to and taking it to the doctor he has always been taking her to, bf's daughter got a physical on Friday. The doctor also printed off the updated immunization records for his daughter and when he got home we looked over them. Guess what? BM lied about his daughter getting the flu shot and being up to date on her shots.

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Back to just post another update

So bf and I got back from our trip to the west coast on Monday at midnight. We had such a great time! It was really great to see all that we did and see his best friend, future boss plus his wife and kids, etc. Where we went is where we will be moving to May 2021 so it was really good to get a couple days out there and explore all that we did!

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