This weekend and today
So this weekend was pretty good, have not received any word yet from my bf's attorney, but I am assuming that will happen today. He generally likes to put everything together in one email rather than sending one update at a time. We went to this beer and bourbon festival on Saturday and ran into one of bf's co-workers and his wife. Ended up afterwards getting a drink out at a bar with them. The wife, I really liked her and I found someone to totally relate to. She is his second wife, he has a daughter, and she went through a lot of what I am currently going through with her husband. I liked her in general, but it was definitely nice to talk to someone who does not just have sympathy for what you are dealing with, but actually has already gone through a very similiar situation and can relate to you on the matter.
Yesterday, when my bf turned his phone back on (when we go out anymore he turns his phone off usually so BM drama doesn't infringe on our time together) BM texted and asked if my bf wants the kids monday - tuesday or if he would prefer friday - saturday. Bf asked what I thought and I said Monday - Tuesday because it gives less opportunity for her to back out or change plans on him. So this afternoon he will be picking the girls up from her. After he told her what time he would be there, BM asks to discuss plans for the upcoming future regarding the children so they can stop wasting time and money on attorneys and going to court. Bf ignored this text and luckily has not received anymore, but I know she will bring it up when he picks them up. Sorry b**** the time to discuss and avoid money on attorney's has passed. BM never taking responsibility as always, she is the reason we are at this point and in the court room. Yes, my bf did ask for sole custody for both kids and that hyped her up, but before that, he tried to discuss and negotiate with her, but she wanted sole or she wouldn't agree to anything else. My opinion? She is desperate and trying to still get her way any way she can.
So anyway, at least we had a great weekend together and now we will get to see the kids today, hopefully hear from the attorney today too and just move this all forward.