So many of you read my post yesterday. Which by the way clearly stated I was looking for advice on CPS, not your opinion on spanking, to be accused of putting my hands on kids that aren't mine (which I never have and never will), or for a break down of everything my bf and/or I are doing wrong. Firstly, the children go to daycare every week day they are not with their mom so usually 4 days a week. They see the youngest full body every day and the oldest they are doing a swim day every Friday and changing out of bathing suits so they are seeing her body as well. Day care who is obligated to contact CPS on anything, has never in a year contacted them in regards to my bf and/or the children. So please stop insinuating that my bf is beating his kids leaving bruises, etc. 1. it is unwanted, 2. it is so far from the truth, 3. AGAIN you are allowed to not like spanking, but a parent can spank their children if they wish, obviously within reason (so if your opinion discusses your view on spanking than don't commment, I will delete them this time). Also, yes I totally agree on we made a mistake on the rock climbing wall, but my bf does not deserve all this due to it. When I was 4, my mom made the mistake of closing a car door on my ankle because there were 3 of us in the backseat and I was in the middle, she thought I was getting out the other side when I wasn't and she broke my ankle. I don't think she deserved to have me taken away or anything because of it and she spanked me as a child. Just saying.
NOW on to the UPDATE: So the CPS worker lifted the hold on my boyfriend being able to see the girls. He also set up his voicemail. The CPS worker is either doing a home visit this afternoon or next week. The investigation could take 30 days, but we won't know more until later. The CPS worker called the BM to inform her that my bf is allowed to see the kids now and that tomorrow morning (today) he would be picking them up as pre-arranged. Around 4 pm, my boyfriend texted the BM as he always does the night before an early morning pick up saying he would be there at 6 am today to pick the girls up and dropping them off friday morning at 7 am. At around 9:15 last night she texts back saying that she would not be giving him the children and that they are staying with her because she thinks it is for the best. To not give all the back and forth texting information between then and now the BM said the girls were at a sleepover and she has arranged for a caretaker to watch the girls while she is at work and how they should be working on being coparents.
Last night, my bf emailed the CPS worker assigned to the case and informing her that the BM has denied access to the children and what should he do. We are waiting for a response from her. When the lawyers office opens, he will also be calling his lawyer. Which we will be finding out if it is this week or next that the 21 days is up for a response from her and her lawyer. The BM told my bf point blank they would not be responding because her address was wrong. Apparently it gets sent to her lawyer, not even her and the address does not matter when it is an address she has been living at, it is the final paperwork that matters about the correct and current address. So hopefully, she just doesn't respond, my bf goes before the judge and then at least the custody/divorce will be over.
As of right now, my bf is only communicating via text with BM so everything is in writing and we are just waiting to hear from someone what the next steps are.