Surprise, surprise, but really no surprise at all
So this Friday was the first day of the temporary court order and BM over here already was trying to act like the court order is just a suggestion. He gets a text a few hours prior to the 3 pm pick up of his daughter saying how she has ballet at 5:30, we can adjust the Sunday drop off so you can pick her up after ballet at the studio instead... She also adds in there "I'm assuming you want to see (older child) that needs to be discussed. I'm not unreasonable" .....My bf responds that he will be picking up his daughter at 3 pm. That this is her doing and please do not bring out the older child at pick up as it would hurt the child and him. Well for about an hour BM kept texting about taking the older child too says how she asked her and she wants to go with the younger child, etc. My bf bascially said you took my rights away from her, this is your fault and your doing, and there is nothing more to discuss about the older child.
My bf gets there for pick up, she did not bring the older child out, but she again brings it up "next time if you want to take (older child) you can." My bf told her yet again, that there is nothing more to discuss on the matter, she separated him from her and that is that basically. He gets home with younger child and then another text saying how he needs to be involved in older one's therapy and how he is the only dad she has known and now that the testing is done, they can go back to how it was before and he can take both children. He did not even respond because he was not wasting anymore time on this nonsense. They signed up for this app called App Close? Don't know if anyone has used it but now they are going to communicate all through there which is fine with me rather than him having two phones or her having his actual number. Then yesterday morning hours before drop off, you don't have to abide by the 3 pm drop off time, it's your time, just let me know. My bf dropped the child off at 3 pm and told her he will be abiding by the court order.
We think BM is trying to get him to take the older child too to either try and report him for kidnapping, try and use it in court the children have never been separated so they never should be or some other angle. I can't wait till he meets with his new lawyer on Wednesday so he can figure out how he is going to proceed forward with this all.
Just so annoyed by BM thinking that she does not need to follow the court order, her keep pushing to try and get him to take her kid now as well, and trying to make him look like the bad guy because he is not going to do so. On the bright side, we had a great weekend with his daughter, she didn't once get upset being without her sister and got more attention than she probably ever has because her sister's behavior and attention seeking is so bad. I am just glad there really is no reason for them to need to communicate between now and the next pick up and even then there is a court order so nothing really to talk about, but I am sure BM is going to message anyway.