So today is pick up and guess what BM is going to be late
So for those of you who have not read all of my blog entries, BM about a month ago had asked they do all communication through this app called App Close. So my bf set that app up and only has been communicating with BM through this app. Well somehow I guess we denied the app for sending notifications so we did not know until BM texted this morning that she messaged my bf on the app on Wednesday. Her message said "I was wondering if we could move the days around for the weekend? Could we switch to next week I don't mind the day you pick for pick up but we were trying to coordinate Thanksgiving early since you hate at least *his daughter* Let me know as soon as you can so I can coordinate." So we missed this message and even if we didn't, my bf would of told her no, I have plans with daughter already scheduled especially since it has been two weeks since he last saw her.
So this morning she texts, not in the app saying how she and her mom are out of state and her car got run off the road, the girls were okay because they were at the hotel when this happened. She doesn't know when she will be back today. She was supposed to leave early this morning and be back early this afternoon. Mind you my bf's pick up time for his daughter is at 3 pm today. So he responds to her in the app saying how they agreed the app is how they will communicate about their daughter, that it is one thing to extend time for holidays such as thanksgiving and Christmas, but it is another thing to ask to switch weekends two days before pick up especially when he only gets 6 days a month, he has made plans in advance already for his time with *daughter*, how he is glad no one was injured, accidents do happen but he is disappointed he will not get *daughter* on time today, and that he wishes she would not of tried to come back from being out of state on the day he picks her up and jeopardize the limited time her has with her.
She then responds the accident happened yesterday, how she was not going to "push the girls in the middle of the night so you could be passified." She continues on how she is not making stops or gaffing off and should of been back yesterday and "I'm on a donut and shouldn't be going over 45 on it. But since you seem to want her today I'm going to do the best I can on the donut."
BM literally could not take responsibility for her actions if her life depended on it. Plus she tries to make my bf out to be an POS for expressing his disappointment and stating that she is affecting the little time he has with his daughter. BM also says "I was going to see if you wanted to start taking *daughter* by herself to ballet so you would get an extra day or evening with her" .... AKA she is trying to make herself look great for court in offering him more time, but realistically it is under 2 hours, drive to BM's pick up daughter, drive her to ballet, then drop her back off at BM's, so really no actual time spent with her. Plus we know BM will be their with her older child at the same time for her ballet class.. so now you are trying to get bf to see other child on purpose since he will not take her anymore, in a public setting so she can try and call witnesses if my bf reacts badly to this.... I told him only way it would be worth it in my eyes is if he got an overnight with his daughter out of it, but the other factors make it really hard to decide.
So yeah, BM supposedly will be back around 5 pm tonight, I doubt that will happen though and we shall see what other drama BM tries to start up between now and then, plus at pick up. Stay tuned .... P.S. she can't spell pacify