So BM signed the papers and had a melt down at pick up
So BM signed the papers this afternoon and my bf's attorney was going to pick them up from her attorney's office. So yes, that's a big success, now just wait the processing time and for the final divorce decree and my bf will finally be 100% divorced so happy about that
About an hour or so after the papers were signed, my bf went to pick up his daughter. Well BM started with asking if my bf will give up 5 of his 7 days for his first week of having his daughter so she could visit her sister for a week. So then she goes on saying he can have two extra days to make up for his lost time... um 2 vs. 5.... there's a big difference
after he told her he has to think about it. She had a melt down saying how fine she won't go visit her sister then, etc.
then she starts in about the birth certificates and says how she doesn't feel she has to do the work to get her own or pay for it. Bf tells her she has to get her older child a new birth certificate anyway and she says she knows that but has to do it through the court and the old one will work for getting her registered for school
then my favorite she goes on how much she's sacrificed and how she pays for everything now. She goes on about being put on the street (she had 30 days to vacate their base home because she got arrested on base for drugs)... she says she did nothing wrong at all that my bf should respect her and want to co parent with her. She said more but those are the key points
then she messages my bf saying how she moved on and just wants my bf to understand where she's coming from. Also that he chose to not be "our family" and that's not on him, etc.
Anyway, just had to give a bit of insight on the craziness of today and BM's craziness. Other than answering comments on this blog and the one before that'll be all I post for a long time and I'll be taking a break too. So thanks for all listening!