So BM signed the papers and bf signs today
So right as bf was on his way to pick up his daughter from BM's, his attorney calls to see when he can come in to sign the papers. At this point it is 2:30 on Friday, so bf tells him he can come in Monday to sign them. So BM officially has already signed them, yay, and bf signs today, then it has to process and his attorney said takes another 6-8 weeks. Boo. Well at least by this afternoon everything will be out of our hands and is just a waiting game to get the final decree. Hopefully this does not take 8 weeks, but I am not optimistic it won't. BM did not try and give the tablet to bf or his daughter or bring up the subject when he got to pick up. BM did try and have her bring this lip gloss stuff to which bf handed it to BM and said I don't need or want this at my home and she said "it's fine she can take it" and bf said "no she's not taking it" and he left.
On another note, BM told bf at pick up that her older child bit his daughter earlier this week and that his daughter fell down some stairs, then she said she fell down a stair. Then in the car ride bf's daughter told bf how mommy covered up my bruise and bite with makeup and how mommy spanked us both. Which BM has always said she never spanks. So bf relayed all the info to me, then about two hours later when she is about to get in the bath, I saw a HUGE bruise on his daughter's butt. So we took a photo of it and sent it to BM in the app and BM says "I told you she fell" and then goes on about how she fell on a concrete stair, etc. Which again kids get bruises, but now it is every pick up she has some obscure injury. Last pick up BM said she fell off a stool and she had a big bruise on her lower back. Bf is bringing it up to his attorney today when he goes to sign what he suggests. We both are uncomfortable with how it is every pick up for the last month and a half his daughter has big bruises or bruises on her face, now BM is covering up bruises and bites her older child is giving her sister. I don't think BM is the cause of the bruises, I mean maybe this last one is from BM spanking her, I don't know. However, clearly BM is not getting anywhere with keeping the older child from hurting the younger one. At the very least we have more documentation of it.