SD and the “developmental” concern
So Bm finally uploaded the records from the wellness visit and the immunization records from SD's appointment. When looking at it, we noticed on there it says under reason for visit "developmental concern" so bf messages BM and asks what is that about.
BM says SD does not know her colors, her numbers, or how to write 1 - 10 as she should at 4 years old...
SD turned 4 not even 3 months ago, she does know her colors and her numbers, hands down. Bf and I have been working with her for months on it and she DOES know it but she can be lazy sometimes about it. As for writing the numbers she literally just turned 4 so we hadn't worked on that part yet. So bf responds for Bm telling her she does in fact know that but you need to work with her every day on it, how when she was in school on his time that they work on that there too, etc.
BM responds saying she works on it with her everyday multiple times a day and she doesn't know these things well. She continues on to say how the pediatrician recommended them to see some specialist about it. BM says how she doesn't want her behind for kindergarten, etc.
I can tell you wirh 100% certainty that at least prior to June 1, she definitely never worked on it with SD, bf and I started working with her on that in January on our time and until summer when we could be super consistent about it, we didn't see large improvement.
BM always has to say something is WRONG with SD especially trying to insinuate that bf has something to do with it when that is so far from the truth. It's super frustrating but go head and see someone BM for attention like you want and to try and seem like mother of the year.