OT - What to write in card after a suicide a year ago
I am back for just some advice unrelated to step life. My cousin committed sucide a year ago and she was 17. I am sending a thinking of you card to my uncle and aunt and I have not a clue what to write in it. Anyone have any ideas? My parents are moving my sister into college today and I really don't want to have them thinking about today (it was a year ago today) when trying to help my sister/keep her mind off of it. I am sending it today, so it will be late unfortunately. The first time I tried to buy the card I got really upset and walked out of the store. Then when I finally was able to get the card a few days ago I have had not idea what to actually write inside.
EDIT: I ended up writing something like:
There are no words and no card that will make this any better, but I want you all are in my thoughts and my prayers. Uncle, Aunt, Cousin, Cousin, and Cousin, I am thinking of you all, especially deceased cousin. Sunflowers, butterflies, and all beautiful things found in nature, radiate her beautiful soul and the joy she had brought. Forever I will remember when she painted *dog*'s nails vibrant pink even though the dog was male.
***I did not write deceased cousin obviously, just to keep it straight forward who I was talking about I wrote it this way. Those aren't verbatium words, but along the lines of what I wrote because once I finished I went and mailed it off. Thank you for the advice, in the last year there has been so much said or written so I was really struggling on not being repeative of others or what I have even said before.