that I should not confront BM about her attempting to give my bf a Valentine's Day gift. Even though I REALLY REALLY want to because it is so disrespectful to me and our relationship. One of the biggest reasons why it is very disrespectful is because it is not that BM has been doing this all along for holidays, but rather the week after bf tells BM when she said they both made mistakes that his only mistake was everything having to do with her and when she said they need to move on that bf has moved on a long time ago, NOW BM wants to try and give a Valentine's Day gift to him. Even though in the 2 years since he filed to divorce her, she never once has tried to give him anything. This is also coming a week after bf told BM that since she keeps trying to send toys, blankets, items with her intial on it, etc. even though he has told her to stop so many times, that from now on they will just go straight into the trash if they make their way into his truck. Yes, my bf did the right thing by telling her no and not taking the gift and standing up for our relationship. Yes, it is his place, not mine to tell her to knock it off, but I am still very annoyed by the whole situation. 

So BM is so worried about getting bf a Valentine's Day gift from "his daughter," but she cannot manage to send the child in clothes that fit. She is 3, wears a size 3T and usually a 4T works too as she will be 4 at the end of July, but sends her in size 6 clothing with shoes two sizes too big. We always send back BM's clothing (it's usually ugly and always never her size) and the child back in her shoes or jacket whatever BM sends, she gets back, but yet, never sends her in anything that fits. Also at pick up, BM says that on Sunday she had given his daughter medicine for her cold. Bf asks what kind, BM sends a picture of a bottle which when you look it up specifically says to not give to any child under 4. BM claims the doctor told her on Saturday to give her half the dose. Then BM says plus, she is practically 4 so  it's not a big deal... she turns 4 in 5 months, so not really BM. However, BM took her to the doctor on Monday for the cold last week, so why didn't the doctor prescribe anything then? Maybe she did call the doctor Saturday and maybe the doctor did tell her to give her half the dose, but since BM literally lies ALL THE TIME and we catch her in these lies, not just us assuming they are lies, who knows what is true. Then BM in person told bf that his daughter has the flu... but the doctor didn't give her anything... If the child had the flu, it would be handled much differently. 

We picked up a natural cough syrup yesterday that can be used for her age and a cool mist humidifier and guess what? She sounds so much better today! We also have been making jokes about the flu because it is very clear she does not have the flu and my bf called after the doctor's appointment for the info since BM does not tell him and they said the child had a cold ... So at least there is that, the last two days have been flu jokes and jokes about his child being grumpy because BM claimed she has been so grumpy lately. Meanwhile, we had maybe 30 seconds of grumpy in 48 hours. So improvements are being made in the making jokes of BM's dumbness and lies. Plus other than asking what meds and sending in the app showing how it is not for her age group (the meds), there is no responding to BM either. 

I am not as livid about the gift thing, but do realize I should not say anything to BM, a freak out if what she wants, but it really does make me mad.