Losing my mind
I know this is not a divorce forum, but a step parent forum, although this kind of relates. So Friday marks 3 weeks since BM signed the papers. Apparently my bf's lawyer has not yet received in the mail the signed PSA from BM's attorney. The offices of both lawyers is in the same town, so there is no reason that they have not been received yet. I'm losing my mind right now about it because it all seemed to be coming to a close, but did BM's attorney not send them yet? Were they sent to the wrong place? Like what on earth could possibly be happening.
Now bf is a little ticked off at me because I reminded him that I was not going to move in with him until we had the final divorce decree in our hands. We are supposed to move in together to a new place in 4 months, so looking in 2 months. So since the papers have not been received means the processing time hasn't even started yet, which takes weeks - months. I refuse to change my boundary on this and I told my bf it is looking like it will be another year until we live together if things don't start moving along soon. Bf has reached out to his attorney twice and will be calling on Friday if he doesn't hear anything from him by then. I am literally at my witt's end. Plus the decree being delayed, just delays things even more with us because I told my bf I am not moving to the other side of the country if we aren't engaged before the move. I also do not want to be engaged weeks after the decree is received either. So yeah, I am not happy and bf is not happy by my reminder of my boundary, which I know he can't control, but he can control following up and asking the right questions so we know the timeline and what next steps are if there is no confirmation of a timeline.
If your comment is about this is why you should never date a man until he is officially divorced, please refrain from commenting that, I am very aware.