A little early but Thanksgiving
So this morning I had a thought, I was like I wonder if thanksgiving weekend falls on our weekend to have my bf's daughter since according to bf he got thanksgiving, but only from 8 am - 1 pm... Well guess what it does, so now we run into a what to do? My bf was considering not taking thanksgiving this year since the amount of time he gets is unreasonable for the holiday and we are supposed to be 4 hours away at my parents. He should get the temporary custody order today, there was a delay because of the judge's schedule. So my bf could have misheard what the timeline for the holiday was.
So what are the chances do you think that since his time starts the next day at 3 pm, that BM might allow my bf to just pick her up thanksigiving morning and instead of taking her back later that day to pick up the next day let him just keep her until Sunday when his time ends? To me there is two options, he skips taking her on Thanksgiving and we drive back that night or early the next morning for pick up on Friday since traffic is so unpredictable for our route. Or we ask BM if he can just keep her since his time starts the next day anyway. We wanted to stay at my parents for more than just Thanksgiving, but unless we have her for the holiday and the weekend that is not going to be an option because he should not skip both his time for the holiday and his weekend time.
Of course it would fall this way!