If you want some entertainment for today read this
So remember the co-worker bf had asked if he could stay with us, but after hearing more and us discussing, bf and to tell the co-worker that he was sorry, but it was not going to work out? The one that had a dog, wasn't finished being divorced from wife #1, had a pregnant fiance that was almost due, but he had moved out and was done with her, and wasn't getting new orders until Spring 2021? Well here is the update on that situation and thank goodness he didn't end up living with us temporarily. So he finalized his divorce from ex wife #1 three months ago, moved back in with pregnant fiance, married pregnant fiance a week after divorce was finalized, wife #2 had the baby, and THEN last week he asked wife #2 for a divorce and moved out. Oh wait, it gets even better, he moved out, but this week stayed over there for the baby and was baffled that in order to get a divorce in VA that he could not stay over at their apartment since you need 1 year of living separate and apart, etc. for a divorce to be granted. He called bf two days ago and asked for bf's advice because in April he is going to another state for a training school for 3 months so he didn't know if he should file for divorce now, etc. and wife #2 does not want to divorce and won't do a PSA. They have been married 3 months only. Yesterday the co-worker then tells bf at work that he has been Talking to ANOTHER WOMAN in the state he is going to training for. This man is such a mess and it is hard to feel sorry when he does it to himself. So glad he did not come stay with us even for a few days, I so don't want to be involved in his drama.
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I swear, there should be ways
I swear, there should be ways for new GFs to get reference letters from former wives and GFs, similar to job references.
I agree and then disagree
Maybe there be an option for if you want one then you can? I didn't need one and wouldn't want one as I got to see first hand about how BM was and if BM gave one it would of been nothing, but lies even when there is legit factual evidence that proves otherwise. If BM could give one on bf this is how it would go:
Bf planted drugs on me then called the police on me on base to arrest me so I got evicted from military housing and he planted drugs in my system since it showed up positive on the drug test, I did cheat on bf while he was deployed because Bf knew I was raped and had another man's child that he raised as his own for 3 years then when he filed to divorce me he pretends he doesn't know and now is rejecting my older child after I took his rights away to her in court, Bf beat me and raped me but I never once told anyone or reported him plus I would get back with him, Bf beat the children but I let him have primary custody of the children for 1.5 years until I decided I could be a mom, etc. the list goes on.
I think his co-worker just thinks he "loves" someone when it is lust and makes rash decisions without realizing the consquences or getting to actually know somoene.
Years ago a woman created a
Years ago a woman created a website called DontDateHimGirl! or something similar. Women could post names of the men who'd treated them badly and share stories of lying, cheating, financial exploitation, etc. I think the site owner ran into legal trouble, but it made for some fun reading at the time.
ETA: looks like the site still exists, albeit in different form.
The real question is - who
The real question is - who dates a man with one fresh ex-wife and a fresh new wife who has just had a baby, that he's left already but wants to spend nights at her house. Either he's lying to the new GF or she's ignoring enough red flags for a North Korean parade.
Hahah this is a very good question!
Apparently they have known each other like 15 years, went to high school together too. I also left out that apparently this new gf has been helping him pay bills! Plus he has been buying things like a new watch, etc.! Ugh so glad it is just bf's co-worker and not an actual friend because I don't really like him after all this!
What an idiot, if he's been
What an idiot, if he's been married less than a year can't they get it annulled??
I wonder how women keep falling for guys like this, I'm sure he tells people his ex's are crazy. One crazy ex ok.. but more than one and it's time to look at the common denominator.
Apparently
in the state of VA you can only get a marriage annulled if:-
-Bigamy – a spouse already has a husband or wife at the time of marriage
-Incest – the spouses are related, closer than first cousins
-Incompetent – one spouse wasn’t mentally able to understand the marriage
-Fraud – a spouse only agreed to marry because of the other spouse’s deception
-Impotence – one spouse is unable to engage in sexual relations
-Underage – one spouse is under the legal age to be married
-Prostitute or felon – one spouse didn’t tell the other they were a prostitute or convicted felon
-Child by other person – a wife is pregnant by another man at the time of marriage or a husband has a child by another woman within 10 months of marriage
-Duress – one spouse only married because of force or fear of serious harm, and
-Sham marriage – the spouses got married for other intentions besides the normal purposes of marriage.
Which their case does not fall under any of those. Yeah I agree 100%
My DH was married twice
My DH was married twice before, which originally concerned me. But he said his first wife was a good person, he liked her family, not crazy - just got married too early, when they shouldn't have. No kids. He only called BM crazy (which I saw with my own eyes). That helped me feel better about marrying him, lol.
Haha
Seeing things with your own eyes makes it much easier to understand!
I would take bets that the
I would take bets that the girl GI shops.
She is probably very young, early 20's is my guess. Her ticket OUT of her town is a baby, quicky marriage and ID card. Icing on the cake is a PCS.
Ughhhh the stories I could share.
People do make some bad decisions about who they marry---doesnt mean they are awful. Maybe this guy just has really bad luck???
I don’t know too much
About her except she was married before, they divorced and he got deported. They had two kids together and then got pregnant with the coworkers baby pretty early in their relationship!
I was only judging the fact he just had a newborn, is staying at his ex's sometimes for the baby, been married 3 months and has already been talking to a new girlfriend and taking money from her for his bills! That doesn't scream good guy to me!