For those of you who carry your step kids on your health insurance versus your DH's health insurance how much of your information did you have to provide to BM for when she takes the SKIDS to the doctor? I am asking because SD is to be carried on bf's health insurance, that is what was agreed upon, which makes sense especially him being in the military right now. As many of you know we will be moving to the other side of the country in May 2021. We know the health insurance for bf's new job is not the best so we were just discussing about if the job I get has the better health insurance what to do. When I was on my parent's health insurance I had to fill out my father's social security number. If my job has better health insurance, I don't want us to go with mine if BM needs to know my social security number or any of what I would consider too personal information. So how much does BM need to be able to take SD to the doctor?