Bf talked to his attorney
So bf's attorney got back to him yesterday regarding if BM doesn't move come September 1 as well as the status of the divorce being finalized. In regards to BM possibly not moving after September 1, the attorney said for bf to follow his summer schedule, ensure he allows BM to have adequate phone communication, if he wants to, allow BM to have a day or two with SD this summer. Until BM breaches the CO which would be her not moving because in the CO it states she is moving in a specific timeframe, there is nothing that can be done, but he would suggest if she doesn't leave to try and work out something they can both agree on instead of going through the court. Bf's attorney feels same way as us, that BM will move shortly after September 1 so he does not suggest modifying his summer schedule too much because it can look like bf can't handle or does not want extended time with SD, plus since BM could pick up and move right after September 1, he could just lose more time with her.
In regards to the divorce not being finalized yet, you wouldn't believe why this is taking so long. So apparently the words "beneficiary designation" was not bolded, so his attorney had to bold these words, send it to BM's attorney for him to sign off to resend to the court. BM's attorney has not signed off and sent it to the court in all these weeks. So bf's attorney is trying to get the judge to waive BM's attorney's signature because it has been so long and it wasn't any real modifications. Bf messaged BM by advice of his attorney to see if she knows anything/can contact her attorney to find out anything/get her attorney to do his job. For once, I don't think BM told her attorney to drag his feet on delaying the process. BM said she called and left a voicemail, she will call again today, it was after her attorney leaves the office for the day and hopefully this can nonsense can just be finished finally. Just really unbelievable that yet again another delay, but this time because two words were not bolded, makes me wanna scream/laugh/cry because it's just crazy.
Last update bf did offer to BM to have SD on his Friday, Saturday, & Sunday next weekend and will pick her up on June 1 to give BM a few extra days before his summertime starts, plus allowing SD to have a fun weekend instead of being around all of our moving, lets us be able to focus on the move, & BM gets more time with her. We also have to type up a notice of change of address in writing and mail it to BM, but bf is going to take it to Sunday pick up and ask BM if he can just hand it to her or he can put it in the mail just because it is easier and he is already there.