Been a while since I posted any updates on court and what is going on. I just got back to town yesterday after being out of state for a week for an unexpected death in my family in another state. Not looking for sympathy, but didn't want people commenting I hope things are okay if I was more vague because they clearly are not, but anyways I am not here to talk about that. 

This morning is the genetic hearing, but really have no idea how it is going to go. According to my bf's attorney, BM's attorney has not filed the petition for the genetic testing to be done. So today, his lawyer is trying to get it ruled in the court that there will be no genetic testing at this time or at a later time due to the BM and her lawyer not filing/petitioning what they were supposed to when the judge two weeks ago said they had until 8.23 to get this done, which is today and instead to have the pendente lite hearing. Also stating that this is all a stall tactic to delay any rulings, etc. by the BM and the lawyer. So basically my bf's lawyer got my bf's hopes kinda up that because it hasn't been done like it was supposed to be that they can get it that it is not done at all. Me on the other hand, who is over having an optimism on the subject of custody, thinks the judge today will give them another 2 weeks to petition and get the testing done. The reason I feel this way is because originally the lawyer asked for 8 weeks to get the testing done, the judge also said he could not legally have a pendente lite hearing until the testing is done as the paternity of one child is in question. BM and lawyer will get a slap on the wrist, be told if they do not do it in 2 weeks, then they will move forward with a pendente lite hearing. This is just my guess.

Also, BM will not be in court today, because she took the children out of town until the 26th and they have been gone since like the 15th is our guess, but BM did not tell my bf that until he asked to see them and she said they are out of town for a few days, then he asked again and she said that they won't be back until the 26th. Bf is pissed especially because she has gone on and on in texts recently about communication and such, then she takes them out of town for a while without saying anything until he asked several times. Which I agree is total bs, but in the end probably doesn't matter anyway. 

So there is my update, no idea what is going to happen today, I mean only thing I can also guess is somehow the BM's lawyer did petition what he was supposed to, but it did not get to my bf's lawyer and they are in for a not great surprise today in court. Any thoughts?