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7 more Sundays

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Submitted by futurestepmomno... on Mon, 04/13/2020 - 9:14am

There are 7 more Sundays of exchanges with BM, 8 total more because May 31(Sunday) we exchange with BM, but then the next day is June 1, which starts bf's 100% custody until September 1. Bf is looking forward to face to face interactions with BM to be done soon, even though she does not start drama anymore, she still plays games. Every time bf goes to pick up his daughter, BM is either carrying her or pulling her behind her, to make it seem like his daughter does not want to go to him. Plus as usual, BM yesterday said "she's really grumpy today," at pick up, but there was not a moment of grumpiness from the moment we picked her up, so it is just mind games BM is trying to play. Whatever, we see it for what it is, there is no drama going on and for that I am thankful.

Anyways, we had a great Easter, the rain held off long enough for us to do an outdoor easter egg hunt with bf's daughter and she got several baskets, 1 from us, 1 from my parents, and 1 from my grandparents, that thankfully had no candy, but instead activities, books, and stuffed animals so that was pretty awesome. 

Let the countdown begin till June 1, cannot wait!

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Submitted by bananaseedo on Mon, 04/13/2020 - 12:12pm

Yikes- this jumped at me "and she got several baskets, 1 from us, 1 from my parents, and 1 from my grandparents, that thankfully had no candy, but instead activities, books, and stuffed animals so that was pretty awesome. "

As in every divorced family, the parents and grandparents are what created these spoiled, entitled monsters.  There is absolutely ZERO reason for 3 baskets, not to mention BM and her family may do something, so that's 5 baskets possibly.  This is wrong.  Between all of you come to an agreement.  Glad at least the other was activities.  I've never understood the Easter obsession, but this WILL bleed over to Bdays, Holidays...my SD was like this, LOADS of gifts for every event.  It will also cause issues w/her sibling at home.  My boys in comparison to SD always got 1/4th of what she would get-she would constantly brag about all she got.  It's just not necessary.

And YES she grew up an entitled monster-we get along fine now but she hasn't lost that 'the world owes me' 'tude.  Dont' start now.