So for those of you who have not read all of my blog entries, BM about a month ago had asked they do all communication through this app called App Close. So my bf set that app up and only has been communicating with BM through this app. Well somehow I guess we denied the app for sending notifications so we did not know until BM texted this morning that she messaged my bf on the app on Wednesday. Her message said "I was wondering if we could move the days around for the weekend?

Bf's new lawyer had asked my bf to come up with a statement for why it is in his daughter's best interest to be primarily with him versus BM. Hopefully this week, if not next week, my bf will have the money to pay the retainer for this new lawyer, but we want to be 100% prepared with everything he has asked for once that happens. Bf asked me to assist him in writing this to include both of our thoughts and I am also better with putting his words in a more professional manner.

So those of you who said BM was going to try and get my bf to take the older child too were right. Right before leaving for the exchange my bf got a text from BM saying how he did not respond to the message in the app regarding the older child wanting to call him, how she is trying to do right by the older child, "how she came into our lives shouldn't matter," etc.

It has been almost three months since this happened and because I just saw my aunt who is a SM last week while out of state at my great grandma's funeral I thought it might be something some of you would be interested in reading about. I am not posting about this looking for sympathy, but more to be informative about how much these evil BM's can be and the impact it does have on their children.