Frustrated with wife's adult children
My new wife and I have been married for nearly 1 year. My 10 year old son lives with us. Her adult children have nothing to do with him or me. They shun us anytime we're all together and one of them is just flat mean. Anytime they're around My son and I feel uncomfortable and unwanted. I have tried talking to my wife about this and she asks "what am I suppose to do"?. With the holidays coming up it really concerns me that my son and I are not going to feel at home due to the fact of the large blended family we now have and he and I are the "new guys". He's has had a very hard time since the divorce from his mother. His mother has nothing to do with him and now he feels his step mother and step siblings prefers that we not be around. I love my wife but this is adding stress to my son and I that is just frustrating. Do adult children from the ages of 19 - 32 really need their mother this much? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.