Rude, Inconsiderate SK
My SD seems to think that it's ok to show up at our house when she wants. Such as today. She tells DH that she is on her way here and he asks why she never tells us when she's coming. Her answer is she never knows. I told him that's a shit answer and that she could tell us when she leaves her house, which is 2 hours away. He gets mad at me and says I have a problem with his kids and that he is going to start having a problem with my family when they come. First of all, my family doesn't come here and when they do I tell him. The only family that comes here is my parents and they tell us in advance. Maybe I was wrong to get mad because it was when he just got home but to me his SD is a rude little B%^&*. He of course doesn't know what the problem is and that I shouldn't be getting mad. But tough crap! The kid is rude and disrespectful. It's called consideration and being courteous. Something his kids haven't ever learned. So am I wrong for jumping his case and getting mad at the wrong time or do I have a legitimate reason. It's just so funny how the stepparent has to fight for what they want and the DH doesn't ever think they are wrong or their kids are wrong. What a life it is.