Christmas Presents for Skids
Ok, so I have a question. For the past ten years that I've been with DH, I have been the one that has went out and purchased presents for the SKids for their birthdays and christmas's. My SO has never gone out and purchased a birthday card or christmas card or gift for his kids. This year, I haven't said anything to SO regarding what he wants to get for his kids. My oldest SD, doesn't talk to her dad unless she needs something. Youngest SD, keeps in touch with her dad but doesn't live with us anymore, due to going to school 2 1/2 hours away. I know for a fact that the youngest SD asked her dad what he wanted for christmas but hasn't and doesn't ever say anything to me. So, I have decided to not say a damn word to him about what he wants to give his kids for christmas and see if he makes the effort this year. So far he hasn't said anything about what to get his kids. I honestly don't give a darn if they get something or not. Tell me, do the spouses out there that don't have bio kids and are married to divorced spouses with kids, feel like it's their responsibility to get presents for SO kids? This year, I am not doing anything for them. Bad attitude, I know but this year, I just don't care. Anybody else feeling like this this year? Thoughts, comments?