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Counseling for me today, BF tomorrow.

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Ok, so after the last blow up, BF and I decided to sit down when we were not angry to talk about things. This works remarkably well, take the anger, get rid of it and think rationally. Well, our blow up was on Wednesday, now it is Monday and no talk yet, I was getting antsy. So after my session today, I confronted him. He said he wanted to talk to our counselor before talking in length to me. I was gracious, nothing was RIGHT NOW demanding. It can hold for a few days.

So now it will probably be Wednesday before we talk again. We are getting along great! I am hoping that the counselor brings up the permissive parenting problems... (PPP) Biggrin with SD10.

I have found that my thyroid medicine determines my mood. If I forget, or run out, for 2 days, I am an absolute BIATCH. I am much more calm if I stay on it. I ran out of just that 1 for 2 days and I ended up with my last blog. I started back on it, and with in 24 hours, I am back to my jovial self. The difference is staggering. Now, I can say that, like I told BF, I didn't go about bringing it up correctly, but my points are valid. We still need to have a talk, but we do not need to scream at each other. Smile

Tomorrow is BF's birthday and everyone is broke. I am hoping that at least his kids tell him happy birthday, I told my kids to!