Please Make Me Understand.........................
Why it is so hard to disengage!
So, SO's BM filed bankruptcy in his name and handed him the papers one day. I called the lawyer and asked why BM's name is not on the papers. Lawyer says "oh, that must be a mistake, her name should be on." (SO not divorced yet, has foreign name same as American female name.) Lawyer adds her name and sends new papers for signatures. BM gets mad. Signs anyway and does credit counseling course. One year later bankruptcy still not filed, BM refusing to speak with attorney, tells mediator all bills are in SO's name, she wants her name off bankruptcy. Yesterday she tells SO she refuses to file with her name. I lose my mind. Leave message on her answering machine that I have in my hand a loan for 39k in her name. Plus 4k in hospital and phone bills. I tell her that creditors are getting ready to put lien on house to get money when house is sold. Please call SO with your decision. VOILA! She calls and wants to know what she is supposed to do? Just tell bitch not to leave anymore messages on my machine.
Now she removes all money in joint account leaving it at 0 everyday. That is the account unemployment check is deposited into. So, today SO went to office to change bank account deposit and will close account for good.
But why? Why does she do things that screw herself just to aggravate us?