Unsure If I will go back to counseling
counseling felt like a waste of time and money.
I like being disengaged from SD13. I like being polite and relaxed. I am able to be that way because I am emotionally disengaged from this child who steals from me.
Why should I pay a counselor to tell me what I’m doing wrong when she has already got the story wrong herself? I plan to discuss with DH. Honestly, the only reason my disengagement was interuppted was because DH did not address SD13’s theft. I did fine at keeping my emotions in check and my mouth closed until I thought she stole something else. I was getting better at it every visit.
Now Ive got this therapist saying “SD13 wants a better relationship with you. Here are 100 books I recommend on this topic.” WTFridge