SD and her lies
First off, I haven't written in a while due to giving birth to my baby daughter last month. She is a premmy and we just got home and all doing well.
So I haven't had a chance to write about SD6 and what unfolded this week, I need to vent. Big time.
In a nutshell SD6 is Toxic BM's mini me. She lies, manipulates, calculates, is secretive, and looks exactly like her mother. Which is hard to deal with sometimes.
This week SD lied and told BM that DH and I smack her and wanted to stay the week with her mummy. Lord give me strength. BM refused DH to take her home during his custody week as SD doesn't feel safe at our home and so he came home with only SS8. He's a good kid and really loves it here. He couldn't believe his sister lying and vouched for us.
Then DH gets a text from BM Friday night saying she feels sorry for him and wants SD to spend quality time with him. Can he try and tell SD to come back to our home. Seriously?? So she can get drunk this long weekend no doubt. Anyway SD ends up being dropped off Friday night and she cried and apologised for lying about us but she only did it because she wanted to spend time with her friends at OSHC while her mum worked.
So now we have her for the remainder of this week and I have stayed in my bedroom the entire time with my baby. I don't mind I actually love my room, but I just feel whatever bond I had with SD is now broken. My DH feels the same with her too. He knows he's losing the battle of keeping BM's influence from SD. He is getting a lawyer though and sending her a consent form for a court order to cement the 50/50 arrangement. He still wants her here which I can understand her being his daughter, but I don't want her here at all now.
Im so cautious of what I say to her, and so scared she might do this to me again.