Having no say in his kids visit
What do you do when your guy just assumes it's cool to have his kids come stay with us for a month? He doesn't even ask if it's okay with me even tho it affects me - it affects me financially and I also work from home so it's a distraction. I always treat them kind but I feel a bit disrespected that it is assumed and not discussed. Also, it's a hard subject to bring up to him bc he gets very defensive about them.