He's like a different person half the time his kids are here. Grumpy, irritable. He says he also goes in sad mode. Nitpicks and micromanaging. Sometimes the main reason I don't like his kids here are because of how he is when they're here.
What do you do when your guy just assumes it's cool to have his kids come stay with us for a month? He doesn't even ask if it's okay with me even tho it affects me - it affects me financially and I also work from home so it's a distraction. I always treat them kind but I feel a bit disrespected that it is assumed and not discussed. Also, it's a hard subject to bring up to him bc he gets very defensive about them.