Every second weekend
So I'm new to this blog and decided to register because I've been feeling fed up and alone. My partner and I have an 8 month old daughter together and he has a 10 year old daughter from his previous marriage ,we are unmarried.
His daughter comes over every alternate weekend. And it basically makes me want to pull my hair out. His child has no respect at all, is passive aggressive, always questions me about my baby for example: did she eat or did you change her nappy. I dont feel comfortable letting her hold my baby or being around her without my supervision as I dont trust her , because I see how bossy and nasty she is to her cousins.
This weekend she is here and tonight baby was saying mum she then starts saying dad repetitively to baby which made me very upset. So I told her she knows how to say dad you can stop that she says mum because I'm with her most of the time and it's not a bad thing.
I've tried to address her bad behavior with her dad he then becomes defensive . He says that it seems as though I dont want him to see his child. Another time he told me that he hates have to defend his child all the time.
I cant stand her bad behavior. She interjects when adults are talking. She sleeps in our bed because she's scared of the dark , it's so inappropriate. What upsets most is I need to nag him to buy anything for baby but when it comes to her he buys these expensive baby dolls. I mean she's ten and plays with dolls but wants to participate in adult conversations.
What do I do!