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Skid being annoying. Again.

EvilStepMom1977's picture

Today as I've been listening in the background, I've had to repeatedly tell my skid to stop hounding her brother.  I'll hear him say "please stop" or "please go away" and she doesn't listen.  We're at an outdoor music festival waiting for the concert to start and she's whining at him to go through his bag and find something fun to play with.  Did she bring her own bag?  No.  Entertain me!  Entertain me!  Her tablet is in the car and she's bored.  So she's breathing in and out of an empty plastic water bottle.  Crunch.  Crunch. Crunch.  Crunch.  Somebody please shoot me.

We're at a fucking park by the way.  There's a playground.  She's too obese to go and play on the playground.  She probably tires too easily.  I see these kids every two week and I swear to God they both look bigger every time I see them.  I understand some people struggle with weight, but I wonder if her mother is even trying to maintain her kids' weight. They grow out of everything so fast and that's just more money that partner went and spent on new clothes this weekend when he could be contributing to the household budget instead.

Nothing fits her.

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EvilStepMom1977's picture

Her dad was on stage.

So just now I walked in on him giving her a stern talking-to AGAIN and she looked like a naughty puppy with its tail between it's legs.

Apparently she shit while at the concert.  I don't know if she full on shit her pants or just neglected to wipe.  But partner's car seats smelled like shit after getting home.  She of course denied having an accident.  Deny deny deny.

She also left clothes on the floor of my daughter's bathroom which she has been banned from using.  She deny deny denied using my daughter's bathroom.

I told my partner that changing in the wrong bathroom is not unforgivable but I will not tolerate this continued lying.  

Deny deny deny.

So she's getting yelled at again and nothing will change.

She basically just comes here and gets in trouble all weekend.

Fun.

SteppedOut's picture

I couldn't do it. That kid sound horrible... ugh shitting herself all the time. Hell to the no. And I damn sure wouldn't want to "force" my kid to deal with her either. 

"Stern talking to" - *snort*. Yea, my formerSO used to give those all the damn time to his evil son. Didn't do a damn bit of good; what a joke. 

Don't feel bad if you end up deciding you just can't (or won't) deal with it and leave... damnit, imagine a teenager shitting themself? (((shudders)))

tog redux's picture

In your shoes, there is no way I'd take those kids to a concert, whether he was in it or not.  Sorry. I'd have taken my SS, but he was well-behaved. Yours is a literal shitshow, and for that reason alone, I'd never take her anywhere by myself.

Stop putting yourself through this stuff. That's the only power you have in this situation.