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Submitted by Erikaruffner1 on Fri, 05/25/2018 - 5:28pm

Hello hi I am Erika and I have 2 step daughters well almost I'm not married to their dad but I do have a son with him and yes they live with us but I've tried for almost 5 years now and his girls are a royal pain in my butt they have no respect for me at all they don't listen they think they are the boss and what I don't understand is they say they love me I have had talks with them but nothing works they lie steal and are bully's I'm at the point where everything they do or say just gets on my nerves I hide in my room so I don't even have to see them what do I do my fiance helps all that he can but he's not home with them he works and I'm at home I feel like leaving but I can't picture life with out there dad and I think about medication I'm at a lost and not happy HELP MEEEE

 

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MollyBrown's picture

Submitted by MollyBrown on Fri, 05/25/2018 - 5:56pm

Hi.  I think your user name is your real name. You should delete this blog an re register.  It can be found if people google. 

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Submitted by twoviewpoints on Fri, 05/25/2018 - 6:42pm

The disrespectful bully girls are 11 and 12,  You've got quite a long time yet before any thought of his girls leaving home.

Sitting, hiding out in your bedroom is not only unfair to you, it's terrible for your own two children. What is your 10yr old and the little five year old doing while you're hiding? Are they in the closed off room with you or out there facing the two girls on their own? 

You're 25yrs old and spending your time surrounded by four kids, two you hide from, isolating yourself. Is this what you want for your life? For your two boys' lives?  If you stay , how do you picture yourself two years from now? Five years?  

Do you work outside the home at all?  

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Submitted by not your momma on Fri, 05/25/2018 - 8:55pm

Definitely change your user name. It took me all of 5 seconds to figure out who you are on Facebook.

That being said, why are you hiding? It's your house. Take it back. And maybe think about finding a therapist? If you're determined to make it work, having someone to talk to can be a benefit.

You said you're thinking about leaving? What's making you stay? Other than this magical love.

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Submitted by fairyo on Sat, 05/26/2018 - 5:21am

Medication won't help- therapy may, leaving may also- you deserve to be happy- go and find it.