he's going to give me a freaking heartattack!
so i revealed all my frustrations last night to him. we got into a fight, blah blah blah.
this morning i leave for work, no biggie, kids go to school, all is good. then he txts me "going to work with church friend not sure if i'll be home in time to get the kids inside" me: well, then just have him take you to sd's school and give her your key to the house or make sure you're home" he never took her a key
so i get a text at 2 "i wont be there, i'll be late" me: "ok sooooo either i have to take off work early, or they will be waiting outside for an hour with no way to call for emergency?" him: "they'll be fine for an hour" me: "not being outside without any form of communication from us! i'm not goign to scare them like that! or risk kidnapping, they CAN'T be there without a way inside the house" so thank god i have a friend out there, i was able to put them on a bus to her house. then he txt me "we're douching the fire, and cleaning up will be there on time" me "don't worry about it it's fixed"
then all the sudden he can't do anything right. well, NO leaving 2 kids locked out of the house with zero communication from us and zero way to communicate is NOT ok i don't care how old they are, especially not a 9 and 14 year old!!!!!!!!