SS13 lays in the middle of the road
Good morning folks!
I have a situation from last night I'd like to unpack. Let me set the scene...
I get out of work and picked up DD2 from daycare. Got her home, gave her a bath, fed her dinner, and was getting ready to put her to bed. (During this time DH was working- he works until 7 most nights).
As I'm getting ready to put DD to bed- SS13 goes outside and lays down, arms out, in the middle of the road. We live on a dead end road- but people still use it as a turn-around (and that's not the point- he's still laying in the middle of the road).
Less than 10 seconds later DH gets home and addresses the situation with SS- telling him that what he's doing isn't safe, asks what is he doing/thinking, etc. He wants to have a discussion- SS giggles it off.
Now DH doesn't like to "yell and scream" but I do think there are certain situations where raising your voice to get him to stop giggling and take him seriously is warented. That its okay to be upset- and actually show that he's upset with SS's actions. DH disagrees wtih me around "yelling and screaming"- saying he brought it up to him and if he does it again- he'll have another discussion and address it again.
This is how DH handles everything with SS. Disrespect, laziness, him being noisey, etc. DH wants to have a talk- SS doesn't take him seriously and giggles him off- the behavior continues. Suggestions on how to stop this cycle? Thank you!!