Unappreciated and Insulted
Well this week has pretty much been a shitty one. SD18 has been home from college and thank God is going back today for a few weeks until Christmas. Then she'll be home until late January... UGGHHHH... but supposedly splitting her time between our house and mommy dearest's.
So I am just going to rant for a few minutes here as I currently hate everyone in the house- except my cats of course!
Before SD's arrival to casa de our house I was thoughtful enough to go out and buy toiletries for her bathroom.. why you might ask? Because I'm a moron doormat. Bought her tampons, body wash, and shaving cream, She don't give a F#$K.
I bought a pillow top mattress cover for her bed as she mentioned it's much harder then the one in her dorm... also does NOT give a F&#K.
Before she goes to mommy's on Thanksgiving she mentions that mom took in a deadbeat relative and deadbeat has a cat. Mommy ACTUALLY likes this cat (side note- mommy threw 2 cats out that OSS23 brought to her house a couple years ago when he was living there briefly. Cats ended up here and I ended up finding a no-kill shelter to bring them to). ANYWAY- I deflect. SD goes on and on about how this cat is ACTUALLY nice and lets people pick it up. This was just a way to take a dig at our cats that she has no interest in and never has.
Oh and then she mentions she's going to mom's early because mom forked over the $10 a month for a gym membership SD is going to clean her house for her. This part almost made me lost my shit on the spot. Are you FU#$ING kidding me??? Everything we provide and do and princess NEVER lifts a finger at our house EVER. Holy crap this makes me irate again even typing it. In fact- DH and I had a conversation before she got home about keeping things clean around here and doing her part. So- her bathroom garbage is overflowing with tampons. She never wraps up the used carboard/plastic part... just tosses them in the garbage and it disgusts me. I told DH to have her empty her garbage and I catch him down there doing it!!!!!! He's a moron. She'll never learn... just continue to be a disgusting person. Guess who won't be buying anymore tampons for her in the future??! ME!
Then... there's my Thanksgiving leftovers. I dont toot my own horn much but there's one thing I know... I'm a fantatstic cook! LOL. Seriously though... and my Thanksgiving meal is the bomb. Kids were at their mom's for Thanksgiving but I still made a bunch of extra food thinking everyone would enjoy the leftovers. On Friday my DH and I are heating up lots of goodies when SD comes out of her room and proceeds to make Raman Noodles. Raman F&#KING Noodles. I wanted to punch her in the face. I'm sorry- that's just insulting.
To make matters worse DH and I have been fighting all week. He is SO defensive over her it makes me insane. I can't say a damn word about her without him getting mad. I'm in the dog house today because I "embarassed him" last night when she was in the basement with her friends. I couldn't find my cat and I was worried someone could've accidently let him out. So I was getting a little loud and frustrated. BIG DAMN DEAL. I don't give a shit.
I've decided I'm not doing jack diddly squat for anyone going forward. No more special baked goods. No little personal items just to be thoughtful. I'm just done! UGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.
Thanks- needed to let that out! Ready to explode over here.