So I told DH that I am ready to end things. I told him I never want to be in the presense of SD9 again. She is verbally abusive to me, sleeps in bed with her dad, and calls BM to have her threaten me..for no reason. I never discipline or say anything to the child. My husband never sticks up for me. He is at his parents house with her for Labor Day weekend. I need to end things before he starts wanting to bring her to my house. I never want to see her again...and before you say she is just a child...I have bent over backwards for 4 years to be nice to her and she gets more abusive with her mother as the years go by.