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7 years, 2 different court cases, BM on supervised visits and back to regular, 3 supervising facilities, 4 child counselors, 3 GALS, 5 DFS workers,1 parental coordinator.... 1 crazy bm. oh and a partridge in a pear tree.

After 2 years of BM not willing to cooperate with DH or the counselors, the parental coordinator is requesting that we go back to court. He wants to us to request that BMs rights be taken away, or highly restricted. He is going to submit a report to the court, but without us initializing a hearing, he can't do this.

After all this time I would think I would be ecstatic. But in reality I know the kids are going to be so sad. No matter how abusive, emotionally or physically, BM is to them, they love her. She is their mother. There has been so much PASing will they blame it on us? Will the resent us? Not to mention the amount of money we are going to AGAIN spend. Court costs alone have been well over 21k since this thing started many many years ago.

I cant figure out if I'm just not getting my hopes up because we have many times with no results, or if its more about sks and their thoughts on this whole thing. Those poor kids go through so much, because of her, but I know them not being able to see her or their siblings will sting a lot. I guess we will just have to see what happens.

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DH has residential now, she gets EOWE. They are much younger tho... but yeah makes me scared. I just keep telling myself if the counselors all think she is abusing them, like we always have thought, then we must have been right. right? sigh..

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Our BM is around, she fearlessly fights to be in their lives. Which makes it even worse. She is just so detrimental too them (mentally unstable). It would be so much easier if she was one of those bms who just up and disappeared vs her being forced out. ya know? Oh well