Arrrgggghhhh - was so looking forward to a clear weekend this coming weekend (having just been to two DH's family events this weekend). But today DH has arranged with his BD (my nightmare SD) to pick up his 3-yr-old GS this Friday, to stay until Sunday - and for some reason he didn't check with me first. I love GS dearly (even tho' he's not my biological GS), but really needed some down-time this weekend, and DH knew this cos we talked about it. Oh dear. This is the third time in as many weeks that DH has made arrangements without discussing with me first - I'm wondering why. I'm thinking it's got something to do with me saying I wouldn't come between him and SD - maybe he's seeing how far he can take that - and operating completely independently of me! Think I'll raise it with him later. Sigh.