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SS SLEPT IN OUR BED WHILE WE WERE GONE

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Submitted by decofru on Wed, 12/22/2021 - 7:04am

Greetings to everyone, its been long since I visited this site, I guess I can say things have been better mostly because DH finally agreed to take SS14 to boarding school despite crazy BM who was against the idea just because she is not the one who actually has to live with her spoilt, ill mannered, manipulative, hateful and deceitful child. She never wanted him when she was still in the country not even to take him on school weekends or holidays. 

MIL FAKING BEING SICK TO AVOID LEAVING

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Submitted by decofru on Wed, 03/31/2021 - 2:39pm

So I had a talk with my DH about how depressing and how uncomfortable it is living with both his mother and my step son under the same roof. I feel like an outsider in my home and I'm just not comfortable. He seemed to understand then he spoke to MIL last week Friday and told her she is to go back to her eldest son's house for a few months while he tries building her a home where she will stay. (I have no idea where he will get the money to build her a home because we don't even have a home of our own we are living in a leased apartment) 

 

If our Skids were never born??

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Submitted by decofru on Sat, 03/20/2021 - 2:08am

My husband says to me, Skid is losing weight, he is troubled by the recording of him speaking lies about me to his grandma, it eats him up, so I should try and be gentle and sweet towards him even when calling out his name I should do so with a sweet tone. I stared at him in disbelief, I mean serious what the f*ck is this? His 13 year old son is busted for being the liar and manipulator that he is and I'm supposed to reward his bad behaviour by being sweet towards him??

I HATE MY LIFE

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Submitted by decofru on Sat, 02/20/2021 - 11:10am

So MIL had come to visit for a month and it's now been a month and half, It's been hard for me being around her and SS12 after listening to the hateful things they said about me and my family. I have to let them use things that I purchased for their convenience and I have to prepare food for them not always but at some days. It angers me to do anything for them I feel they are not deserving of my labour or time or touching the property I purchased since they made me out to be a devil and they clearly hate me. I don't know if I'm overreacting for feeling this way. 

 

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I Finally busted MIL & SS13

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Submitted by decofru on Sat, 02/06/2021 - 4:03pm

So we have been living together in peace for the entire year 2020 with SS 13 and with his mother still out of the country since 2019 October. 

 

Beginning of January MIL wasn't feeling well, she had a chest infection so DH asked her to come visit us for the whole month of January,

 

I picked her up from the bus station on the 4th of January, a week later my DH and DH's distant relative who is twenty years old left for church choir practice. (Name is Hope, she has been living with us since March and helping me with house chores and we pay her) 

 

DH Asks me why ss12 is crying!

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Submitted by decofru on Tue, 02/18/2020 - 12:35am

So it's been almost four months of living with SS full time 24/7 without even a day of break, to tell the truth it hasnt been bad as i expected. SS has been on his best behaviour, he seems to have grown and changed a lot, he no longer expects the world to revolve around him or to compete with me, he now knows his place as one of his father's children and not his father's Prince as he used to think.

BM LEAVING SS MOVING IN FULL TIME

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Submitted by decofru on Thu, 10/24/2019 - 6:29am

I had hope that BM was bluffing about leaving for Dubain well she wasnt, she is leaving this weekend and SS 12 will be moving back in full time! Meaning he is there during school days, school weekends and school breaks. The horror!!! Not even BM got to stay with him full time why must i? She had breaks every weekend and the whole school break which i won't get because there is no where the child can go to visit. On top of that DH will now be supporting SS financially 100% on his own & our son 50% as he insists on sharing our 2 year old's son expenses half half.

BM IS LEAVING

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Submitted by decofru on Tue, 10/01/2019 - 3:10am

My heart is so faint, i feel so hopeless and disheartened. Yesterday around 9pm BM calls DH and says am leaving for Dubai in October and daaaah it's already October. She has been staying with SS 12 from last year September during the school teerm, he has been coming to us every weekend and the whole school break. How can she make plans to leave to another country without first discussing it with DH and asking him if he is okay with living with SS full time? I hate the fact that this woman has the power to influence my life and am finding it hard to accept it.

DH PASSES HIS GIFT FROM ME TO SS

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Submitted by decofru on Tue, 09/24/2019 - 2:32am

So i bought fancy matching sports water bottles for me and DH sometime in April. They are expensive but since was buying for me and DH thought it was worth it, i could picture us using them while going for a morning jog or during any sports events. DH has always kept his by his work place. SS 12 slept over and didn't leave sunday evening because his mom said she is not around until Tuesday so he has to stay with us until then.

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