My kids thought I had them for Christmas this year and we were all excited and looking forward to it. The ex informed me yesterday that he gets Thanksgiving and Christmas this year. So I left and cried because it shocked me. But I didn't throw a fit.

My kids like to watch their littlest brother with DH open his presents. They are as sick of the "papers" as I am. They are 19, 18, and 12. The girls talked to their dad and arranged for them to do Christmas early over there so they could be here for our big family get together.

I read on wiki:

The best revenge is to just get on with life. Just enjoy life and say thank God, and move on. Revenge is sweet but them being jealous of you is the icing on the cake.

Also, the more time you sit thinking about how to hurt them is more time you are losing that you could be enjoying life and moving on.

Having said all this, I've also contacted an attorney to get the child support stopped because the filthy bitch fails to maintain control of the child. He quit high school and does drugs.

Once again its Christmas and all the skids are lining up to get their Christmas bucks!! Yea for free money and free stuff!!! Its awesome how they can put on that FAKE ASS face and just put their little hands out there!!! 21, 20, 17. Screw 1200 a month, we want MORE!!!