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15 hour roadtrip due to BM...awesome...

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So, if you read my last blog you know that there was a chance I would have to drive 15 hours this christmas to see DH and be able to spend x-mas with the skids as well.
Welll....BM keeps saying that she can't afford the $240 to change the kids tickets so they wont miss school/finals. (but she could afford a $1000 tv...hmmmm) She also called my SS and told him it was DH's fault because he told her the date she bought the tickets for were fine. (he didn't, neither of us knew she had even bought the tickets when she did).
So...now, in order to see DH...I have to drive 15 hours to him with the skids instead of taking a 4 hour flight.
Now, I'm okay with it because we'll get the kids for christmas...without her having to be present, and the kids will stay with us.
And while i'm okay with it, I'm really pissed too. DH and I have kept up with our end of the deal and it's pisses me off that she can't keep up her part...then expects us to fix it for her.
She told the kids I would drive down and drop them off with her....ummmm....negatory BM. Isn't going to happen. She can pick them up on Xmas day AFTER we eat dinner then drop them back off after she spends a few hours with them.
DH called the skids and asked if they were okay with not spending xmas with their mom...they both replied, 'yes dad...we're totally okay with that"

Way to make yourself look even worse BM...really, way to go.