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Update on Birthday Party (It's good news!)

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In reference to a posted comment: Mic went to go see the new coach at the last practice we were informed about so that he could get in on the action, but the practice was cancelled. Ms. Perfect does this sort of thing all the time. We just got stuff straightened out with the school, as they were never informed about the joint custody arrangement. It's a good point, though. He's going to talk to the coach at the game tomorrow so that we have a schedule, too.

What is wrong with this woman???

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So I should have known something was wrong when ss actually called us. Turns out, it wasn't even ss, it was good old Ms. Perfect herself calling last night. She was calling to inform us that we would have to take ss to have his baseball pics taken, and take him to his first game on Saturday. Now she has had this information since he was chosen for the team, possibly earlier.

Should we be worried?

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Mic went through the usual trying to talk to ss yesterday. She had finally turned the phone off just a little before his bedtime ( I can only assume she got tired of hearing it ring). I told Mic that he should think about calling again about 8:15 (when ss should be in bed reading-lights out at 8:30- we don't like to interrupt then, be it wasn't like he hadn't tried earlier). So he calls again at 8:25, and of course, the phone was back on. SS finally picks up. When Mic asked about his day, etc. he said that he and his mom were out for a walk, after dark. Hmmm...

Bear with me- this is long

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So Mic tried to wait until all of ss's buddies left from the sleepover to call yesterday. We were at his brother's house (I give his neice piano lessons), so he used their phone to call- seeing if Ms. Perfect would finally answer the phone. Well, she did. She told Mic that ss was already down at the shore for the day, and that she didn't know what time he would be home (like he's a teenager or something-a mother should know what time to expect an 8 year old on a schoolnight).

SS's Birthday

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Well, this time last year, Ms. Perfect was about to give birth to baby Cash Cow. She was understandably busy, as we threw the only birthday party for ss. This year, we have him on his birthday (hah!), and of course are throwing another party (see post regarding total lack of WWE paraphanalia). SS told us at the last visitation that Ms. P. was planning on doing his birthday party the week before. He was excited, as he was finally having an overnight party (which it seems like all the "cool" older kids are doing this year).

Update on Lost Paperwork

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And No, it hasn't been found. In response to posts: Mic's going back to court to enforce the court order that was issued back in the summertime. There was a court date back in January, but she didn't show. He filled out the paperwork that day to reschedule. He has a copy of some sort of paperwork from that day that should prove that he indeed filled out the "lost" paperwork. Thanks for sharing your stories about lost paperwork. When all else fails, it's so encouraging just to know that we are not the only ones going through this.

What's the point?

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So Mic finally got to the bottom of why he hasn't gotten a court date yet (after almost 4 months). They lost his paperwork. There's nothing. They want him to come fill it out again, wait another 3 months, just so they can she can do anything she wants. In the meantime, they're only open until 4:30, so he would have to leave work early just to fill out the paperwork. And I'm sure they'd just lose it again. He went ot court in January, and she didn't show. It was supposed to be rescheduled. I don't know what to do. I just came right out and said it. I told him to give up.

Ms. Perfect needs to review her paperwork!

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Never a dull moment with Ms. P. Mic called to make sure ss would be at drop off this afternoon. Now, this arrangement has only been in place for a whole year, so I guess I can see why she would still be so confused about it. Of course, she forgot today was visitation. And, true to form, it couldn't just be that she forgot and that she will correct it. No, this gal can't do anything without an argument, name calling, and her favorite-hanging up. She tried to say that she and ss were already out.

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