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GRRRRR So mother trucking annoyed right now

DaizyDuke's picture

So DH barely talks to SS18... if he DOES talk to him, it's because DH is calling SS not the other way around... UNLESS.. SS wants something. So Sunday, DH gets a text from SS asking if he can have some money because he is going shopping with his GF this weekend... since DH didn't buy him any school clothes. Yeah, the fucking punk actually said that. Why the hell would DH buy school clothes for a kid who doesn't go to school?? SS is a Sr. and only has 11 credits of the 21.5 that he needs to graduate. He's NOT going to graduate for 2 years at best... and that would be if he managed to show up and pass EVERY class for the next two years. SS has no job, no driver's license, makes no effort to do ANYTHING. So according to DH on Sunday, he was NOT giving SS any money.

Soooooooo I just got off the phone with DH and he tells me that SS told him that he got a job at a new fast food joint that opened in our area a couple of weeks ago. Apparently there were three days of training prior to him working. He went to the first day of training but then BM2 couldn't get him to the second day so he quit? got fired? I don't know... I asked DH and he couldn't tell me... just said well, BM couldn't get him there so he was done. DH said he asked him why he didn't call MIL and SS said he didn't think about it, but that he did call a couple friends, but nobody could get him there. And ladies and gents... DH drank the fucking Koolaid. Now, while I know that BM2 is a piece of shit who only cares about herself, this story just does not pass the sniff test. If you know your kid has to be to training for the second day of his new job, why would you not make arrangements to get him there?

So I asked DH if he gave SS the money he was asking for and he paused (probably thinking about lying, but luckily for him thought better of it) and gave the old "Yes! What was I supposed to do say no?" I said YES! What the actual fuck?? It's OK for BM to tell him no, but you just can't possibly do that?? Oh and supposedly SS told him that they never have any food in the house (insert eye roll here) so of course DH handed the dope smoking punk $100.00. I asked if that was his Christmas present.. DH said probably not, that it's not like 100.00 will go a long way for him to get clothes.

GRRRRRRRRRRR I am pissed. I hate this stupid shit. DH just got played for the 4,678,898,676,456 time by a skid. It is apparent to me that this will NEVER end. He will NEVER learn. Why the fuck is there not a mad face emoji????????

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MineAndYours's picture

I would be rotted too! And the sad part is you can't even blame SS...this is all on your DH. HOW are they so blind?

All I can offer is my empathy and a virtual frying pan to smack him up side the head!

Hugs to you!

WalkOnBy's picture

OH - I AM SO MAD FOR YOU!!!! WHERE IS THAT PISSED OFF EMOJI?

Ugh - just ugh. Kid needs to get a license, buy his own damn clothes and grow the eff up!!!

And your DH giving this slug money?? *passes out*

Major Blunder's picture

Ahhhh the joys of Stepparent hood, I try not to even ask anymore about what is going on with the skids and how they have gotten DW to do something else for them, in my book she/we have done more for them then ever should have. If DW were to pass away suddenly both SD's would be up the creek without a paddle because I would not be doing anything for them but I can bet you they would expect me to, that would be a shocking reality.

DaizyDuke's picture

Exactly what I was thinking! But didn't dare say.. because then I'd be the asshole who just hates skids

DaizyDuke's picture

This is ONE time I wish DH would talk to BM2. I want to know HER side of the story. I guarantee it differs GREATLY from SS story. But SS knows that DH hates BM and won't call her.. he'll just feel bad for the poor poor poopsie and fork over the bucks...

DaizyDuke's picture

How does this kid have a GF

Because he's Rico fucking Suave dontcha know. This is the skid that BM2 started giving condoms to at the ripe old age of 11, so yeah, she's got money for condoms but not food apparently.

hereiam's picture

Ew.

DaizyDuke's picture

To be honest, I'm really stumped on this girlfriend. I've done some stalking (and I'm pretty good) considering that SS has be blocked on FB and has a private Twitter, I have managed to find this out about the GF:

She graduated from a different school district last year.
She has a job at a small family restaurant
Her dad is a teacher in school district where she attended
She's cute and seems to be more mature than the standard SS GF who's Twitter feed is all about getting doped up, drunked up, and basically acting like a ho.
I don't know if she still lives at home though and wondering how they are doing this "dating" thing because if she is living (home)where she attended school, that's a good 25 minutes from SS house and he of course has no car or DL.

DaizyDuke's picture

I kind of agree.. According to what I can glean they have been together since at least January 2016 (maybe on and off) because she had a few sarcastic Tweets about how she just loved being ignored, and how she loved being told she had to wait so he could finish smoking dope with his buddies etc.

The last GF he had (that I knew of) whole Twitter feed was basically about smoking dope 24/7, gross pictures of her boobies hanging out, and the usual teenage girl crap. But this current girl does not seem like that at all, so I'm guessing, she thinks she can "fix" him. SS is not a bad looking kid, he has good hygiene and although he dresses like a wanna be thug, he does dress nicely, and he can be charming.

hereiam's picture

Anytime either of DH's daughters have said, "You owe me this because....," it has resulted in laughter and a big, fat, "No."

He hates guilt trips, says his mom was the queen, and he learned a lot about not falling for it because of her (God rest her soul).

Handing this kid (your SS) cash for anything is incredibly stupid.

I am also pissed for you.

thinkthrice's picture

How AWFUL!!

Maybe he'll land in jail and then daddy dumplin' will see the. . .errr will BAIL him out, of course!!!

GGRRRR!!

Acratopotes's picture

mmmm call DH and ask him for 100 bucks for clothes for BS..... it's only fare he dishes that up now....

if DH tells you NO - then tell him, oh you can say no to me but you can't say NO to your pot smoking school drop out lazy ass son - guess who's giving you the next bj...