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Daisymazy2's picture

My last post, I mentioned that SD, age 17, said she was pregnant.   She claims that BM will not take her to the dr.   She did take a home pregnancy test and SD said it was positive.  To my knowledge, no one else saw the test except SD.  SD is begging DH to let her come here to live.  NOT HAPPENING.  Also,  BM has been taking SD to get the Depo shot. 

SD told DH that BM had a meeting last Monday with the school because she is going to be expelled from school and will not graduate this year.  DH saw SD yesterday.  Now the meeting is today not last Monday.  She says she is going to be expelled because she threatened to call the police on a student who was threatening her.  To be expelled from school, it would have to be a serious offense.  SD has been suspended from school so many times for her behavior.  It wouldn't surprise me that she was expelled but not because she threatened to call the police.  

SD knows that DH's child support ends when she graduates from school.  I could smack the crap out of him for telling her.  SD's loyalty is always to the parent that is kissing her butt (which is usually DH). I really do not see BM trying to convince SD to not graduate so she could get another year of child support.  BM is really frustrated with SD's behavior (stealing BM's credit card, lying, violent outburst, cursing, bad school behavior and etc) and can't wait to have her leave home.  

I am now actually thinking that SD is making up all these lies to see if she could get under DH's skin.  I am certain that IF SD was pregnant, BM would have already taken her to the DR by now.   It is possible that BM has taken her to the Dr, she isn't pregnant and SD hasn't told DH.  I doubt very seriously that it would take a school weeks on determining if she is expelled.  DH  hasn't spoken to BM  in a few months.  DH said he didn't want to get involved in THEIR (SD's and BM's) drama so he hasn't called BM or answered the phone when BM calls.  Honestly, I think he doesn't want to hear that SD is lying again.  It frustrates me whenever he catches SD in a lie, he never calls her out on it.  

Any ideas why SD would lie like this or why she would actually put herself in a situation to be expelled from school a few months before graduating.  

 I really feel that DH should stop entertaining SD with all this crap and just contact BM to find out what is going on. I am beginning to think DH must love all this drama from SD.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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advice.only2's picture

Honestly with as much trouble as she has had with the school I find it hard to believe she was going to graduate regardless of if they expelled her.

I think your DH has his head in the sand and figures if he ignores the issues (SD) then it will all just go away and sort itself out.

justmakingthebest's picture

He probably does love the attention. He is like a little kid where this craziness is better than no attention from her at all. 

As for a knocked up teen- NOPE. BM created that mess, she can clean it up. The most I would offer SD is $ for bus fare to planned parenthood to take a test there. 

Your DH needs to call the school and get to the bottom of all of this. I would even reach out to the school nurse. I would be willing to bet they could do a pregnancy test for her.